But why is it so important to people that they should get to say offensive things?? Like “you can’t say anything anymore w/o someone getting offended”, but why would you want to. If you know something you say is hurtful to someone else - especially someone in like your social circle - why would you want to say it. You are fully aware that what you’re saying is hurting a person close to you. Shouldn’t you want to make the people around you as comfortable as possible? Why is it more important to say one word, than being kind to people around you?? That makes you an asshole plain and simple.
From what I’ve understood from talking with a person who feels that way, it’s because they’re afraid that if they commit to that, it will inevitably reach a point where people will take advantage of you and use that to maliciously try to limit your ability to communicate. If they don’t have the means to expressing themselves, they lose the ability of self-determination. Ultimately oppression.
so they want to keep the words that are used to oppress others. “I’m not using them that way!”







